“You wanna get coffee together sometime?” The famous line of old friends who’d like to catch up, the man bravely asking out that woman he’s interested in, and two people who have just met and decide they’d like to get to know each other better. The seemingly perfect setting for sitting down with someone and connecting with them in conversation, a coffee shop offers comfortable seating areas, a relaxed environment, and of course those delicious steamy beverages that give it its name in the first place. But I’m not really writing this post to talk about coffee shops, now am I? No, I ‘d rather discuss what it really means to “get to know” someone, and ultimately, what it means to “know” God.
In John 17:3, shortly before Jesus is taken to be tried and eventually crucified, He prays the following:
“And this is eternal life, that they might know thee, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent.”
Paul later proclaims this to be his goal in at least two places in the New Testament.
“For I determined not to know any thing among you, save Jesus Christ, and him crucified,” he declares in 1 Corinthians 2:2.
And in Philippians 3:10-11, Paul, speaking of Christ, says,
“That I may know him, and the power of his resurrection, and the fellowship of his sufferings, being made conformable unto his death: If by any means I might attain unto the resurrection of the dead.”
So…
What does it really mean to “know” Jesus?
In the verses both in John and Philippians, that word “know” is translated from the Greek word “ginosko.” Ginosko may sound like a funny word, but it has such a beautiful meaning. Its definition can apply to something as simple as understanding or perceiving something, but it’s deepest meaning is relational. To know someone is to be in an intimate relationship with them. For instance, best friends know each other, parents know their children, a husband knows his wife. The relationship between spouses is probably the best example of “ginosko” that we have outside of a relationship with Jesus Christ, as it is an emotional, mental, and physical knowing that we don’t truly experience in any other human relationship. And Jesus calls us to this same knowing of Him. In order to understand what it means to truly know Him, I think it is important to look at examples of people who claimed to know Jesus, but never really did.
“Jesus answered, If I honour myself, my honour is nothing: it is my Father that honoureth me; of whom ye say, that he is your God: Yet ye have not known him; but I know him: and if I should say, I know him not, I shall be a liar like unto you: but I know him, and keep his saying” John 5:55-56.
When Jesus said these words, He was speaking to the Pharisees, a sect of the Jews that commonly found pride in upholding men’s traditions and following men’s ordinances. They claimed to serve and know God, but Jesus says they didn’t. They were the kind of men who would seek to make themselves look good by publicly proclaiming their dedication to the Lord, while inwardly basking in the adoration of the common people.
“Not every one that saith, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wondrous works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity” Matthew 7:21-23.
“They profess that they know God; but in works they deny him, being abominable, and disobedient, and unto every good work reprobate” Titus 1:16.
The Pharisees thought that since they knew so much about God and His Word, that they really knew God. But there is a big difference between knowing about someone and actuallyknowing them. For instance, I’m a big fan of the band “for KING & COUNTRY.” I could tell you some facts I know about them, share personal stories behind some of their songs, my brother even knows the drummer in the band! But…that doesn’t really mean I know them, does it?
“Where is the wise? where is the scribe? where is the disputer of this world? hath not God made foolish the wisdom of this world? For after that in the wisdom of God the world by wisdom knew not God, it pleased God by the foolishness of preaching to save them that believe” 1 Corinthians 1:21-21.
“…Knowledge puffeth up, but charity edifieth. And if any man think that he knoweth any thing, he knoweth nothing yet as he ought to know. But if any man love God, the same is known of him” 1 Corinthians 8:1b-3
We can fill our heads with all sorts of facts about God and the Bible, and we can even know our Bible from cover to cover, but if we only ever keep it as head knowledge, what good does it do except to show the world how much we know about God? It is in acting upon His Word and loving Him with all our heart, mind, soul, and strength, that we find what it means to know our Lord.
“Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit…Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them…Either make the tree good, and his fruit good; or else make the tree corrupt, and his fruit corrupt: for the tree is known by his fruit” Matthew 7:16-18, 20; 12:33.
“And hereby we do know that we know him, if we keep his commandments. He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected: hereby know we that we are in him” 1 John 2:3-5.
Our relationship with God is reflected in what we do; how close we are to Him shows in our daily lives. When people look at you, what do they see? Do they see someone who knows a lot about God? Or do they see someone who really knows God? This is something I have to ask myself often. It’s all too easy to get into a routine with God, so to speak. You sit down sometime in the day, you read His Word, you say a quick prayer, and then you go about your day. Am I saying that it’s a bad thing to have a quiet time? Not at all! Quiet times are fantastic things and serve in growing us in our walks with God. But when we treat that time as just another thing on our to-do list, it seems to become more of a “have-to” than a “get-to” in our lives. We open our Bibles, we read the facts, and then like the man spoken of in James—who looks at himself in the mirror and as soon as he goes on his way, he forgets what he looks like—we go about our day and tend to forget what we just read. It’s in seeing our whole day as an opportunity to nurture our relationship with God that we begin to truly know Him. It’s reading His Word to know His character; it’s communicating with Him through prayer to know His voice as He replies; it’s inviting Him into each moment of every day in order to recognize His hand in it all. It’s not about knowing the facts, but about knowing Him and being known by Him.
“And when he putteth forth his own sheep, he goeth before them, and the sheep follow him: for they know his voice. And a stranger will they not follow, but will flee from him: for they know not the voice of a stranger…I am the good shepherd, and know my sheep, and am known of mine…My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me” John 10:4-5, 14, 27.
“Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity” 2 Timothy 2:19.
As we go about our days, let us remember that life isn’t about knowing the most about God and the Bible, but rather knowing Him intimately and letting that show in everything we do that others might desire to know Him too!
“But let him that glorieth glory in this, that he understandeth and knoweth me, that I am the LORD which exercise lovingkindness, judgment, and righteousness, in the earth: for in these things I delight, saith the LORD” Jeremiah 9:24.